Marc Jacobs Briefcase

Well, for Valentine's Day (which is also our 3rd year anniversary)
I have my boyfriend a pair of diamond studs Cartier Gift Card $ 500 Harry Rosen, a briefcase Marc Jacobs and Chanel leather strap. Since it was a very special day, I thought I'd give him more gifts than I did for her birthday or for Christmas.
I do not lie, I have a very rich family, and I want to spoil those I love, and I thought my boyfriend would be happy too.
But all the holidays, he begged me not to spend much on gifts, and he said being with me was enough. Usually, I settled with something like a fountain pen, perfume, clothing, etc., something small,
but I really wanted to give him something more since it was our 3rd year anniversary, and our third Valentine's Day together.
Now do not get me wrong, I never never never never ask anything in return.
When I give gifts, I do love to give gifts, do not get something in return.
I told him, a hug would be enough love for me, because I know he loves me as much as I love him.
So I told my friend that I got my boyfriend for Valentine's Day and 3rd Anniversary
she almost cried because I spent so much. (I spent about 20,000 USD)
Then she told her friend, who told his friend, who told my boyfriend's best friend, who told my boyfriend.
Then he called me saying he could not accept gifts because he could not give that much back to me. I told him he didn't to do.
But he said he did not accept these gifts, and then I told him I wanted to give these gifts to him. Then he argued that it was not my time money, and I told him I knew he was not my date of cash.
And then, after about an hour of argument very hot ...
He said he could not see me.
I do not understand, I ask nothing in return ....
All my friends say it's my fault ... WHY!

because you imply that you spent that much, the guys are very proud, simply tell him that you understand now.maybe he thinks he will never be able to respond to your standards, then you really are the scare. I am a poor single mother so I would not know what it is like to spend a lot money.you are a lucky person to have money, do the show before the guys because they let themselves intimidate or take advantage of you.I think you will be able to obtain your back.At Guy at least you do not have to pay bills can not you.

Wow, if someone spent $ 20,000 on me, I feel so embarrassed!

Perhaps the fact that you one-up him every chance you said something? Maybe he wanted to buy you a nice pair of earrings, but decided not to because you bought something that costs 20 times the amount of earrings? maybe you should stop showing and grow. just because you have money does not mean that you should use it.

It's your fault. Stop showing off and give your BF some credit. Now no matter what he does for you please, you do not like it because you expect a Bently and carriage to take you to dinner valentines.

Well, you love your way. This is YOUR way of loving someone. But this is not what he wants.
I understand that you are not asking anything in return. But still, normally people think that they should give the same back. Also, think about it, when his friends see, what will they think? People will think he is with you for money.
If he really wants that you should really think of another way to show him that you love instead of buying him all these things.

You give stuff to the wrong person.
Give all of them to me. I'll give you a hug and not whine about it. I'll even encourage you to do more.
I'm even going to the top.